Itchy Toes - a Travel blog

What is it with indecision and travel? Why do they always go together? Well, at least for me, they do.

I didn’t have plenty of time to really mull it over. My boyfriend called me up this morning and asked me if I wanted to meet him in Singapore on Monday. Wow. Hang on. That’s three days away. Well…okay!

Before i realized the impact that decision will have on my wallet, i was looking up flight options on the internet, and I mean all the airlines that go through Singapore, and I was calling my travel agent. (My travel agent is the best! She always manages to get me the flights i really, really want for the cheapest fare.)

Waiting for a call from my travel agent the whole day (she already gave me a preview of how much the fare would be…definitely much cheaper than online tickets), my fingers never stopped tapping on the table, unless i’m biting my nails off. Lo and behold! She came through.

So, off I go to Singapore on Monday, leaving my kids with the nanny again, to see my gorgeous boyfriend. The story on that trip will come to you next week. Catch you on the flipside!

Ooh, by the way, do you have any must-see suggestions for me in Singapore? Quick, give me tips!

The key to any great trip is good packing. Depending on your destination and the activities you look forward to doing on your trip, you have to pack the right clothes and the right amount of it and, of course, the right pair of shoes. When you’ve got what-to-bring sorted out, packing becomes of primary importance.

I have always referred to the opening scene of The Accidental Tourist (sorry, never read the book, so I refer to the movie), when i pack. Remembering the very instructive voice of William Hurt:

“The…traveler should bring only what fits in a carryon bag. Checking your luggage is asking for trouble. Add several travel-size packets of detergent so you won’t fall into the hands of unfamiliar laundries…Always bring a book as protection against strangers. Magazines don’t last and newspapers from elsewhere remind you you don’t belong…And most importantly, never take along anything on your journey so valuable or dear that its loss would devastate you.”

I have found this advice timeless and practical. I have learned a couple of tricks from my long history of traveling (thanks to my backpacking days) and I always found them to be the best way not to go insane on a trip.

Here’s what I do:

1. First, what to bring. The key is bringing a few key pieces like clothing, shoes, toiletries, and something you can’t live without. Depending on the kind of trip you’re taking and your destination, you should determine what these key items are. Eventually, these items will be the staple of your travel experience.

2. I put all my travel stuff in separate ziplock (freezer) bags.

3. I sit on these bags for vacuum-packing, except when they contain shoes and underwear bra. In the case of the latter, I just squeeze the bag gently to let the air out and seal it.

4. I then put them in a huge garbage then into my travel bag (could be a suitcase or a backpack). You never know when your bag gets caught in a heavy downpour and gets accidentally dropped into a puddle or a river. Of course you don’t put anything liquid (shampoo, lotion, etc.) inside this bag because it will defeat its purpose, which is to prevent your stuff from getting wet.

4. Of course, your first line of defense for your things is a good and reliable bag. I invest in a good heavy-duty travel bag because I never want my things damaged or strewn all over the place.

It’s difficult to get packing right on your first few trips. Some people actually need days, even a week (or more?) to pack for an overnight trip. But once you get the hang of it, you will be able to focus on your trip and not what’s in your bag.